Or so it may seem if you’re looking at things through a competitive or fearful lens (which, admit it, we all do once in a while).
How to build confidence in your own artistry
We make music for a reason. And making music should feel good.
So if envy, imposter syndrome, writer’s block, or exhaustion are getting in your way, here are seven important things to remember about your life in music:
1. Don’t compare yourself to others
As they say, comparison is the thief of joy. The only music you should compare yours to is YOUR OWN.
Has your music improved over time? Be proud!
2. Love what you create
Don’t chase trends. By the time you “catch up,” the world will have moved on to the next shiny thing.
Follow your gut and be yourself. You might be right on time.
3. Get trusted opinions before you finalize your track
Don’t wait until release day to ask your professional network to take a listen.
The time to make your track is BEFORE it’s finished.
4. Collaborate!
You don’t have to be an expert at everything.
Work with qualified people if you need help writing, producing, mixing, etc.
5. Be a lifelong learner
Stay curious and open to new styles or techniques.
Inspiration can come from your early influences, but also from the generations that follow you.
6. Take breaks
It’s okay to walk away once in a while.
You’ll return with fresh energy and new experiences to put into your original material.
7. Commit to music as a lifelong project
Be in the game for exploration, expression, and most importantly, connection.
If you’re in it for the long haul, you won’t feel as much pressure on any one release.
Less pressure, more fun!
What works for you?
If you have rituals or mental tricks that help you out of the rut when you’re down about your music, I’d love to know.
His poems have appeared in Poetry Magazine, Prairie Schooner, The Poetry Review, and more.
Robley has received a Maine Literary Award in Poetry, Boulevard’s Emerging Writers Prize for Poetry, and in 2016 was selected by former US-poet laureate Robert Pinsky as a finalist for the Dorset Prize.
